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29-year-old Hunan often Dede Town Youth Abu (a pseudonym), nearly half did not go downstairs, and he locked himself in a room on the second floor to play the game,peuterey outlet milano, three meals a day by the mother to the upstairs. August 10, Abu description by the local TV station became "addiction Youth", after this story spread on the Internet, many people went to the village of Abu "watch." Abu has not downstairs, but the door completely locked up, or even difficult to call his mother to open his door.

Yesterday,http://sideviews.at.webry.info, the reporter went to Abu home, trying to understand the real him, but Abu did not open the door,http://www.auto-tsukamoto.com/hpgen/epad/epad.cgi?mode=view&no=541&res=1&page=0, not even speak a word. He really is addicted to the Internet? Abu relatives from the mouth, the reporter learned that Abu anxiety. Abu anxiety is not a person, there is the same village and Abu young, there was once a closed village, this gradually "urbanized" in the township.

Our reporter Zhang Xiang

Wu Ting Zhou Dongliang Jiang Yuting intern reported Changde

"Internet addiction youth" not six months down the stairs

"Abu, out to eat it." Mother of the meal ended Abu door, the door opened a crack, Abu took the dishes from the door, then quickly shut the door. Mother had intended to say something, Zhang Zhang mouth, but closed it again. The past six months, the mother at time of delivery a day to see Abu,moncler outlet, he shut himself in a room and play the game, no matter who told the door, Abu will not know you.

Huan playing computer, earlier this year, when his mother called him down to dinner every day, he always linger for a long time sitting at the computer side, or simply do not agree. Mother and son always loved food cold fear, and put food on the second floor to the end, put Abu computer desk. Over time, Abu never take the initiative down the stairs, stay in the room day and night playing games. Mother has gradually become accustomed to his son meal. But the mother can not understand is that Abu never downstairs bath. Every mother to say a few words, Abu would grumble, then the mother will not say anything.

Winter to spring, Abu has no half bath downstairs for dinner,scarpe hogan outlet, there is no room cleaned more unpleasant odor. Summer,http://suntower.weclub.info/viewthread.php?tid=168542&extra=, mother every day meals and clean clothes to Abu hands, mother and son rarely speak, room only opening and closing sounds.

August 10, mother to a local television reporter called and television reporter carrying a video camera into the Abu room, Guangzhebangzi Abu told reporters:. "I have no problem,http://www.armonicos.co.jp, all right, I make money online,tn pas chere, why downstairs ? "and then turn around to continue to sleep.

Television program, described Abu became the "Internet addiction youth." This is reported in the online spread, villagers, students and relatives came to see Abu. Mother hoped the news will help Abu leave the room, but it was gone, Abu completely locked the door, and even the mother can hardly be called away.

Abu's mother convinced Abu never be on TV called "Internet addiction youth." Abu's aunt said, one thing can not be relieved Abu far: He wanted to go to college, but also on the ability of universities, but ultimately did not get this opportunity.

University, Abu can not let go of regret

Abu child is very smart, no less than a homework elementary school had 98 points. After his mother still remember Abu examination, the transcripts held high into her eyes, said: "Look, I was the first." Son smile, facial features stretch parents. Closed village poor, Abu said to the university entrance exam,http://www.saltlakecityutahhomesforsale.com, and then make a lot of money to support their families.

After graduating from middle school,http://www.fc-agency.com, the principal Changde a high school drove to the village of Abu's parents,woolrich outlet, said:. "Abu energy on the Tsinghua University Beijing, as long as Abu onto school high school our three years tuition fees do not have to pay," Abu glad, but Parents not happy. Mother have a plan, let Abu read college, then quickly find a job to make money, but the family could not get Abu college tuition.

Abu did in high school, left the village to Nanjing a secondary study. On college next year, along with a group of people to do business Abu go, he bought a lot of pillows, door to door selling. Because never done business, Abu loss of money. Later, there is no secondary school graduation,http://sj.145hao.com/?action-viewcomment-type-news-itemid-12,hogan interactive, Abu left Nanjing.

Abu parents never complained, did not mention his own regret not going to college. Until a few days ago, grew up with his cousin knocked on the door of Abu, Abu fishes cousin to tell the heart of grievances. But these words, even if the mother asked him, Abu said no openings.

When Abu still in school, home began to change. Excavators and muck car to Germany Town, bulldozed the hills, from the wide roads repair. The villagers watched from the stands on land blocks of the plant, entered the German town of intersection, put up a lot of billboards, the township will be built,woolrich outlet italia, "Economic Development."

Left Nanjing, Abu went to a soldier. Two years later, Abu retired. He did not stay in the village, but south of Guangdong to find work. Abu doing a security company, the monthly wages of only 1,000. Abu is an aloof man,nike tn pas cher, do not even want to talk with other people working. Cousin understand his mind, "he wanted to do great things, rather than a lifetime to work."

After coming back to work, the township had changed

In 2006, worked for two years in Guangdong, the Abu return to town. At this time of towns and villages have been changed. Large tracts of farmland were levied everywhere criss-cross the road and a huge plant. No home field, legs and feet inconvenient mother plant "economic zone" of where flowers and grass, his father also various odd jobs in factories, where the need for people to go Which yard.

This year,peuterey, Abu also into the factory, in a pharmaceutical company to do assembly line workers, the monthly wage is 1,000 yuan. Cousin said Abu Until now, but also fluent in English, he read out the work on the pharmaceutical companies when those drugs. Family members know that A Wuxi Huan English at home but also keep several of the English textbook.

Abu lot of things to see in the eyes: a lot of rich people came to town, the villagers had to do the workers in their hands; many young people in the factory all day wandering the same age, but can not find a suitable job. There are many young people made a fortune, drove the car smartly coming and going. Abu no money, no land,louboutin pas cher, he was just the factory assembly line workers.

This time, the town a lot of people have bought a computer, network cable bracket to the poles, leading to the villages to buy a computer at home. In 2007, Abu also spend their own money to work, to his uncle bought him a few years ago the old computer with a new one,peuterey milano, also connected to the Internet. Mother knew Abu heart is not happy, never complains he always sit at the computer side, he does not pay any attention to blame for guests to visit.

Aunt said Abu hate their mother, if I had to read in high school his mother to let him go to college, he is now the situation will be much better. But Abu mother had recently vowed:. "I want to make a lot of money, cure your legs, go outside and play with you to fly."

Abu mother knew how to think, "If you have a good job and earn some money, he would not be so." But his mother did not dare to force open the door, afraid to cut the cable, did not dare say a word to him, but his mother One day waiting for Abu figured out, go downstairs.

He is an adult, not addiction patients

Xin Bin, director of the University of Arts and Mental Health Education Center in Hunan

Internet addiction for many reasons, but the family's lack of parental influence is an important aspect of the child's parents Abu adopt a laissez-faire attitude is not acceptable. Network myth of a new era has influenced many young people use the Internet to make money, still need down to earth. Of course, not Abu net addiction patients in the strict sense, he is an adult, for their actions and thoughts have full ability to grasp.

Abu issues to individual and family to boot clear, if necessary, so that he received psychological treatment, psychological counseling. On the other hand, the contemporary young people face complex and severe social challenges it's hard to find a way to deal with the measures, the lack of appropriate mechanisms to guide society is also an important reason.

"Urbanized's" spirit of anxiety

Chinese Sociological Association director, executive vice president of Hunan Institute of Sociology of the new direction

Abu current situation, an urgent need for someone to break the deadlock, particularly the need for psychological guidance, or will develop into a mental illness.

Meanwhile, behind this there is a deeper problem. village live in a "urbanization" category, the process of urbanization, rural people are forced to bear difficult to adapt to this kind of pressure. Faced with this contradiction, this group will be some anxiety,http://kawasemi.trivia.jp, if not ease,woolrich, it may evolve into social conflicts.

Urbanization process, in addition to the rural community to provide more jobs, living space, but also should pay attention to their mental state. We need them to psychological and spiritual counseling, need to establish a mechanism. This is a mechanism that is currently blank, it is worthy of reflection.